When I tried to avoid studying during preparation for SSC examination:
All elders - Abhi padh le beta, abhi padh le. Baad me to aaram hi aaram hain. (Study hard now! After this life will be a cakewalk)
After SSC, when I started preparation for engineering entrance examination and used to sleep early and get up late:
All elders - Sirf do hi saal to padhna hain beta, achche college me admission ho jaye, phir to aaram hi aaram hain. (Son, just study now for two years, once you get admission in a good college, after that life will be a cakewalk)
When I was supposed to be studying for HSC, and I slept:
All elders - Yeh bahut jaroori exam hain, abhi padh le beta. Baad me to aaram hi aaram hain. (This is a very important examination; study now. After this life will be a cakewalk)
During graduation:
All elders - Chaar hi to saal hain. Achche se padhai kar le, baad me to aaram hi aaram hain. (Study hard for just these four years. After this life will be a cakewalk)
During preparation for campus interviews:
All elders - Achche se padhai kar beta, life ka sabse bada interview hain, iske baad to aaram hi aaram hain. (Study well son, this is the biggest interview of your life. After this life will be a cakewalk)
Now I am working and wondering where the aaram is? ![]()




its all just a mirage
matlab tune SSC, HSC, B.Tech, etc mein aaram nahi kiya? come’on.. 4 saal IIIT mein aaram hi to kiya hai humne :))
Sahi main yaar .. maine to first year main hi samajh liya tha yeh funda .. ki this is the last chance to do aaram …
Bas madhukar ko partner banaya aur pure 4 saal aish ki
Its all a matter of perspective. A simple matter of choice, this is not. In hindsight things always pan out more clearly. DO you believe getting the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow will give us happiness? This chinese story is shamelessly copied from the net but it explains our nature well.
When the monkey trainer was handing out acorns, he said, “You get three in the morning and four at night,” This made all the monkeys furious. “Well, then,” he said, “you get four in the morning and three at night.” The monkeys were all delighted.
Now i am not calling you names but we are all like these monkeys.
hmm..bas 30 saal naukri kar le beta..fir to retire ho kar aaram hi aaram hai..lolzz
.. vaise yaar aaj kal bhi to aaram hi hai..kaam karo office main..chai piyo, khana khao, TT khelo, vaapis aao aur salary udao 
Beta!!!!!
Yeh sab moh maya hai…. Asli aaraam sanyaas mein hai.
quit job ki pay ko
stop the TT /Tea/Coofee time
stop IIIT jana
stop IIIT jake BC karna
tyaag de movies/frens/***** dekhna
Itni mushkil life chod ke chala ja Himalaya aur ban jaa sanyasi.
Now if your parents… said what is written in the above comment would you have beleived them and acted accordingly… :)))
Interesting .. my super intellegent fingers typed in the link address even before me realising what i was typing .. ( think you posted something on this too )
dude .. we are totally on the same wavelength here .. majji ki baat mat sun ( interesting .. my super intellegent fingers missed the ‘mat’ part here ..i had to go back and type it) .. usko aise hi frustoo ka khitaab nahin mila hai ..
Mythalez, the mirage always depends on the perspective, the place from where you are looking.
Nirnimesh, bilkul sahi! IIIT me humne aaram hi kiya hain
Rakesh, Madhukar ki sharan me 4 saal! bahut aish ki hain tune
Sreejith, so we are monkeys, huh?
But you are right, in hindsight everything seems to have happened for the best.
Sandeep, baat to teri sahi hain. aaram hi to kar rahe hain hum
Majjj, utkarsh ka comment padh le…
Utkarsh, hehe
and thankfully your super-intelligent fingers are back to blogging regularly. Thanks!
Live iz neva a cakewalk man….its woes its hardships its & struggle neva end…..Life iz juz a Crap :$ …
yew knw wat? same happened to me…ba i`ve left evythin’ free…i`ve left evythin’ upon Allah…